My interest in literature is private affair. its fun affair. Timeless mind achieved mostly through reading.

I wonder what will be the mind of the writer when he engaged in this kind of adventure.

We must never be afraid to go too far, for truth lies beyond. Happiness is beneficial for the body, but it is grief that develops the powers of the mind. Time, which changes people, does not alter the image we have retained of them. Only through art can we emerge from ourselves and know what another person sees. ( Proust)

Happiness is beneficial for the body, but it is grief that develops the powers of the mind.

This is statement which we do not accept mentally and reject with full might when we encounter grief.

“With the death of my father, it wasn’t just the objects of everyday life that had changed; even the most ordinary street scenes had become irreplaceable mementos of a lost world whose every detail figured in the meaning of the whole.”

Orhan Pamuk, The Museum of Innocence

you are swayed by the emotions of sea. you forget the reality of life. present moment is no more important . one by one memory stab your heart. and crying become normal behaviour.

That one hour, That one thing

Why cant 2 hour , 2 things…. or more hours or more things

Let me put it this way? What is the most important thing in a day, which if you do will be the best thing for your future self. For me Reading a Book for one hour

That bring

accomplishment

Happiness

pain ( Note that is not a joy ride)

Joy

So you have to find your One Hour Joy/ May be that will be a difficult joy/ But a joy which have an impact on your life. Replace this joy with any other pleasure. But you do not get satisfaction

This joy, this work shows that you are Living , you are hopeful. what EVER the current situation I will fully indulge in this difficult joy

What is your One hour Joy?

you need certain amount of time to master The art. ( anything)

Take music

Take piano … I have a Piano in home. today I know there are black and white keys in this instrument

36 white and 25 black.

2 combination 5 = 10 Black

3 combination 5 = 15 Black

Total = 25

white is 36

This is my basic idea about this stuff. so my daughter came to scene and c d e f a b c

I said what it is … he told you dumb , learn by yourself. there are button you press then some automatic music come. that’s a feature .

But i know Beethoven Mozart ( only 2 in my memory) created music . How they produced something original out of nothing . I have no idea.

Same with photography,

You need to know how to operate the instrument , Not that only

You need to see how you focus the object. from which angle , How the emotion of the object

Susan Sontag written a beautiful book on photography ….

“Life is not about significant details, illuminated a flash, fixed forever.

Photographs are.”
― Susan Sontag, On Photography

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Integrate your dark side . What this mean?

First we have a dark side, we have a light side

Light side is the sharing side, kindness side , joy side

Opposite quality display in dark side. One of the problem with all because if your light side is little brighter , we indulge abruptly in condemning others.

“The shadow goes by many familiar names: the disowned self, the lower self, the dark twin or brother in bible and myth, the double, repressed self, alter ego, id. When we come face-to-face with our darker side, we use metaphors to describe these shadow encounters: meeting our demons, wrestling with the devil, descent to the underworld, dark night of the soul, midlife crisis.” Jung

I have gone through this stage of my life. it is a painful experience.

why it is painful experience? we never accept / realize we have a darker side.

“One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious. The latter procedure, however, is disagreeable and therefore not popular.” (Carl Jung)

“The meeting with oneself is, at first, the meeting with one’s own shadow. The shadow is a tight passage, a narrow door, whose painful constriction no one is spared who goes down to the deep well. But one must learn to know oneself in order to know who one is.” (Carl Jung)

There is no generally effective technique for assimilating the shadow. It is more like diplomacy or statesmanship and it is always an individual matter. First one has to accept and take seriously the existence of the shadow. Second, one has to become aware of its qualities and intentions. This happens through conscientious attention to moods, fantasies and impulses. Third, a long process of negotiation is unavoidable.” (Carl Jung)

so its an ongoing process / it takes courage and effort to reach a more stable phase.

greed, anger, desire , bad habit, jealously , hate all this part of us. Nor pretended to be saint.

we see this others easily. But difficult to notice in our behaviour .

Moods ———- Mostly moody, sad, too much happy

fantasies – very personal / some times terrible and cannot accept we did this

Impulses – all the time we think , under control . but after one incident we say next time sure. i don’t do it.

You only have Time. Rest is not important.

So what is Time?

“Time is relative. This means that the passage of time can vary depending on the observer’s frame of reference. For example, time passes more slowly for objects that are moving at high speeds or that are in strong gravitational fields.”

Just took one property

Sitting with a lover(Friend/ whatever name you call) and having a coffee Time never enough.

Waiting for an MRI Report / Time not moving at all.

Example given above definition is Science .

EXTREMLY PAINFUL HEADACE / how you spend that night?

How exciting when you are planning for a travel

sitting with a friend / You talk/ she listen/ she talk / you listen/ then silence / both stay in silence / moving cloud/ hot coffee smell/ some car moving fast/ then she talk / you smile/ you talk and she ASK

mY God, Then What happened?

Time never enough.

feeling light, take it lightly , its silly, take it to the chin and move on

This shall pass away. All this basically teaching on our own on existence. Feeling light also connected to your Ego

The stupidity of people comes from having an answer for everything. if you are Light inside you do not respond to majority of issues coming to your way

Light being also zen way of living

Masters are light because they have no expectation . They have limited desire.

They are in nature strolling around without an aim. being present

The idea is not for everyone. world and achievement is the main focus of everyone. where am I 50/50. More towards being Zen.

Mr. Matthew Charles Mullenweg CEO Thank you.

You created this amazing Stuff. I wrote 201 Blog. This is special for me Because it make me sane. It help me dream BIG.

This Blog writing started out of frustration. Nov 28 2015 My first blog. Simple Blah Blah

But That Time I have a 9 – 5 Job. I write for Myself. I was depressed and under treatment. I write this to say that writing is a helpful activity , which make me free from 100000 Thoughts .

Any way Thank You. God bless / Good Luck.

So I am a Loser In every sense.

I failed in my college. Always look Timid. Nothing exceptional in all aspect of life.

But later In life I know that I am going to fail, I MAKE A plan to fail better.

Take trading , You fail often, But when you fail , Don’t fail hard.

You fall , But don’t break every born of your body.

You fight with your spouse but don’t decide to divorce tomorrow.

Life is serious of failures that moving forward. we fail we get up stand we fall we walk little we fall

Every aspect of life is connected to failure . But we are statedly moving upwards.

Kind of understand this structure , you can live bit of peaceful life.

The image should change / But it is not easy when you are in a dire situation

“In some ways suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds a meaning, such as the meaning of a sacrifice.” “Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose.” “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. Victor Frankl

I think 2 people may behave differently in a tough situation. we didn’t know the reason.

what is the purpose ? Life is a gift and i uphold the value of Living.

so respect life and protect yourself and your loved one. struggles are not long lasting .

Life is good / All the blessing is on your way.

This is something very important in my life. I have so many negative images flying in head for so many years. What will be my Life ?

IF THIS

IF THAT

IF HE
IF SHE

WHAT THEY THINK

WHAT I WILL DO

most importantly this negative thinking is pop up without any reason. Am i going to be poor, no food, no job, what will i do if this happnes

I changed this / or i can say, it changed itself by the Grace of God. if you are atheist , by the grace of Nature. The people who suffer this kind of pain should think about what they consume/ who they talk daily/ who are there friends/ what was there family atmosphere. I will write more about this

My practices and teachers about this subject.