win friends

“the deepest urge in human nature is ‘the desire to be important.’”. I do marketing for a living. Meet N number of people in a day. i love the job. I never had second thought about my Carrier. It is in the Right direction.When i meet my customers most of them dont discusses details about the business. They know that I am fair in my deals. But I listen very deeply to their to personal problems. Many of them i do not have solutions. But…. Sometimes it is emotionally darning.

What is best self confidence Line i listen this week. :” i am the captain of my ship and master of my Fate……………………………. Am i not Successful. ? What do you think?


Why should I write

I think great masters asked this questions in different way. If you cant live without writing you should write. If you are thinking writing is most valuable thing in your life you must write at any cost. it may take your whole life. But you should give yourself to writing.

But in my case…….

Reading this then that and this and that…. is more fun

Travelling….. Poems…. Walking ( Solitary walking)…. is more fun

And loving…. yes i mean it. I am for Romantic love… Innocent love (No carnal pleasure involved)………………….let me quote Rumi…. He is the best….

A moment of happiness,

you and I sitting on the verandah,

apparently two, but one in soul, you and I.

We feel the flowing water of life here,

you and I, with the garden’s beauty

and the birds singing.


Compassion tells you that finally you have to return to the world. Not only just finally, but the whole time you have to work with the world, relate with the world, because enlightened mind contains wisdom and compassion simultaneously. You have an obligation to the world you were brought up in. This is the world you belong to; you can’t give it up altogether. You can’t dissociate yourself from the past or whatever irritates you. In fact, compassion brings us back to dealing with the world as the only way. We have to work with people. We have to work with our fathers, our mothers, our sisters and brothers, our neighbors, and our friends. We have to do that because the people with whom we are associated in our lives provide the only situation that drives us to the spiritual search. Without those people, we would not be able to look into such possibilities at all. They provide irritations, negativities, and demands. They provide us with everything.

So this what we have to go through?